Since I read Carlo Valois' writings and some recent experiences all makes more sense to me in regards to female attraction - most men are indeed too feminized and empty-headed that there can be no attraction; but if a woman is starting to become attracted to the possibility of forming a relationship, she will dedicate her personal life to your ears (and body), thus she will say ''at this day I will have my birthday'' means she desires from you (if meant for you and not for indicriminate desire for attention) specific attention.
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1. "Youth, oh, youth! | of whom then, youth, art thou born?
Say whose son thou art,
Who in Fafnir's blood | thy bright blade reddened,
And struck thy sword to my heart."
2. "The Noble Hart | my name, and I go
A motherless man abroad;
Father I had not, | as others have,
And lonely ever I live."