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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Sun Nov 29, 2015 9:28 pm



Too bad cats don't dance.
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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Sun Nov 29, 2015 9:30 pm

Now, how can you be mad at old people watching that?
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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Sun Nov 29, 2015 9:51 pm

Feminism in all forms, whether typical White Feminism or Intersectional Feminism is a fundamental denial of reality. Women are simply, plainly, fundamentally, genetically, inferior to Man. They are emotional and irrational whereas men are rational, capable of Universality and unbias. Women see the world subjectively, immaturely, only thinking of their base material desires, merely calculating just enough for the next material advantage: like the Child or Animal.

"Woman's Rights" is nothing more than the most deadly and decadent major phase of the Feminization Project. Woman screams, shrieks, clamors greedily for her "rights", thinking she has done "creativity" when she has merely been taken advantage of and assimilated into the system ready to use her genetically and mimetically as it sees fit. Women are simply stupid, unconscious; merely reflecting what has been programmed into them than creating something themselves.

"Intersectional Feminism"; the next form of Jewish Nihilist Decadent Degenerate Genetic Filth, carries their idiotic premise of "equality" to niggers. Niggers, like women, lack creativity and human spirit in all forms. They are the primal animal, a human-like creature that can only imitate. Woman is the same. Feminism is the decadent nihilist force that forces true humans to bow and listen to humanoids, in essence dragging everyone down. But Feminism, ultimately, is just one of many steps to Feminization, to our dumbing down. Stupid, arrogant women, clamoring for rights, are merely tools of Man, as women always were and aways will be.
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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Mon Nov 30, 2015 12:14 am

Mad at old people? I even made the comparison with the ugly in regards to ''just because'' - the moron just does not get it, respect ''just because'', no reason at all but age or ugliness or feelingzzz.
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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Mon Nov 30, 2015 12:26 am

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Feminism in all forms, whether typical White Feminism or Intersectional Feminism is a fundamental denial of reality. Women are simply, plainly, fundamentally, genetically, inferior to Man. They are emotional and irrational whereas men are rational, capable of Universality and unbias. Women see the world subjectively, immaturely, only thinking of their base material desires, merely calculating just enough for the next material advantage: like the Child or Animal.

"Woman's Rights" is nothing more than the most deadly and decadent major phase of the Feminization Project. Woman screams, shrieks, clamors greedily for her "rights", thinking she has done "creativity" when she has merely been taken advantage of and assimilated into the system ready to use her genetically and mimetically as it sees fit. Women are simply stupid, unconscious; merely reflecting what has been programmed into them than creating something themselves.

"Intersectional Feminism"; the next form of Jewish Nihilist Decadent Degenerate Genetic Filth, carries their idiotic premise of "equality" to niggers. Niggers, like women, lack creativity and human spirit in all forms. They are the primal animal, a human-like creature that can only imitate. Woman is the same. Feminism is the decadent nihilist force that forces true humans to bow and listen to humanoids, in essence dragging everyone down. But Feminism, ultimately, is just one of many steps to Feminization, to our dumbing down. Stupid, arrogant women, clamoring for rights, are merely tools of Man, as women always were and aways will be.  


Women have no power but in so far the emasculated Manchildren allow them, what can I help it if they have no masculinity except in symbolism such as cigarettes and tattoos; something is not right in them already if they so easily submit themselves to the State. There is a reason why feminists keep their mouths shut to muslims and Islam in general, because they do not allow them to speak their voices in such a manner, the fear the overly masculine gives them.

You seem to fall for the feminist created gap that the architects of the ideology seek to create and have created if looking upon America's gender issues; as well to think that men and women of the same sub-racial species can be divided which they essentially cannot, especially considering we all have our own degrees of masculine fluidity in the static female and feminine fluidity in the static masculine gender.

Feminization of man too is to hate / despise their own degree of feminity and thus even their own women; that is maybe the most fundamental symptom of femininzed men; men with control and reason have dominace and guidance over their own degree of feminity and thus also over women, or at least their wife and daughters.
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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Mon Nov 30, 2015 1:39 am

I would ask one who criticizes someone for being "neutered" to clarify in what degree they mean. I'd have them point to one male today who is not effectively neutered in comparison to the state. Today, a man's spirit or virility is limited to being over himself.

The English, protestant white Christian males (the 'celts') of the Northern US who are no different from females themselves, submitted themselves to and support the all-leveling American institution. Watch, as "effect" becomes equated with money and wealth. That these females point to Bill Gates as the most virile of men.
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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Mon Nov 30, 2015 1:34 pm

You would be surprised how many women are actually in agreeance with the system's agenda with little manipulation necessary, where the natural resistance takes on a different desirable form, although the idea might be introduced or at least promoted, that a emasculated feminized man is the ideal man, but I still think that with excessive manipulation, over a large amount of time, that an ideal feminized man would not even necessarily be needed in terms of ideals, as the humans will be so different at that point that contact would be akin to a friendship that is similar to how homosexuals and women hold with each other, any other intimate interaction will take on a technologically means.
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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Mon Nov 30, 2015 3:15 pm

Why even fake any pretense at this point; when Evidence shows all to be in the contrary? Why bother even call "Feminism", with its disgusting pretenses and appellations, by its name? Let us call it by it's true name, it's fundamental reflection of its true nature: Feminization. Niggerization.
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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Mon Nov 30, 2015 3:42 pm

I liked Leonardo Dicaprio in Romeo and Juliet.
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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Mon Nov 30, 2015 3:51 pm

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Mad at old people? I even made the comparison with the ugly in regards to ''just because'' - the moron just does not get it, respect ''just because'', no reason at all but age or ugliness or feelingzzz.

As long as you're not mad at old people. I'm sorry.
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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Tue Dec 01, 2015 12:30 am

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Mad at old people? I even made the comparison with the ugly in regards to ''just because'' - the moron just does not get it, respect ''just because'', no reason at all but age or ugliness or feelingzzz.

As long as you're not mad at old people. I'm sorry.

They sure didn't have any problem being mad at their elders and destroying what little organic order there was left in the west.
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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Tue Dec 01, 2015 12:44 am

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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Tue Dec 01, 2015 5:44 pm

I wonder what ugly girl's principles are; tell me, if you dare.
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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Wed Dec 02, 2015 9:03 am

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Mad at old people? I even made the comparison with the ugly in regards to ''just because'' - the moron just does not get it, respect ''just because'', no reason at all but age or ugliness or feelingzzz.

As long as you're not mad at old people. I'm sorry.

They sure didn't have any problem being mad at their elders and destroying what little organic order there was left in the west.


This is not the right topic for this thought, but I just hate these people of any age group, who say that "they are feeling old" and that now that they feel old "they've seen it all", and now they feel like they are feeble enough to tell you the meaning of life and whats most important in life etc (their personal wisdom). I have never understood how can these people automatically think they are right about something just because they have turned certain age....

Like for example liberal minded war veterans, they tell you that peace is all that matters and that sickens me. Even people in their 30's say " I feel old compared to the new generation of teenagers, oh boy did we have everything better in the 80's! These youngsters don't know what they have missed! ".

Even the parents don't realize their thoughts are modern, yet they "feel old"...
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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Thu Dec 24, 2015 5:23 pm

Giving the punishment meaning; that is what I would do.
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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Mon Dec 28, 2015 10:36 am



The comment sections are most often a good laugh.
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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Thu Dec 31, 2015 5:36 am

Eliminating feminist teachers levels the gap between boys and girls:


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''I resist you by spreading my legs in front of you leaving my juicy vagina exposed to any form of penetration; take that!''

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There is a reason why feminists keep their mouths shut to muslims and Islam in general, because they do not allow them to speak their voices in such a manner, the fear the overly masculine gives them.
Feminists are fear dominated creatures, so yes. they will not respond or fight anything that makes them too afraid. This is why we can be sure Feminism is not a tool to stop tyranny, and will not inspire real positive social change.

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Feminization of man too is to hate / despise their own degree of feminity and thus even their own women; that is maybe the most fundamental symptom of femininzed men; men with control and reason have dominace and guidance over their own degree of feminity and thus also over women, or at least their wife and daughters.
Yes and no. Early budders and closet fags do hate their own feminity, and become hypermasculine. However, this is actually ineffective towards the herding techniques, because these types are usually violent, own weapons and are harder to herd. The only reason they are able to be herded is due to their low intellects. Ones with higher intellects are harder to herd.
However, once an individual matures, they naturally begin to hate the feminine side. Mature men and women become misogynists, because women are inherently inferior. The superior state is androgeny, master of feminine and masculine forces. But without masculine energy there is no driving force. Wise androgenys hate feminity in others, but not their own. Respect for feminity is earned, most people who are not yet wise, should be scorned for their feminity. Only the wise should be permitted to indulge in feminity.

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I would ask one who criticizes someone for being "neutered" to clarify in what degree they mean. I'd have them point to one male today who is not effectively neutered in comparison to the state. Today, a man's spirit or virility is limited to being over himself.
Men are not allowed to be men. Men cannot physically fight over girls. If a girl cheats on him, men may not do anything physical to another man. Its a scheme made up by the State to extort money from the prison system. Any man or woman who is not 100% emasculated goes to prison, thanks to Uncle Sam.

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The English, protestant white Christian males (the 'celts') of the Northern US who are no different from females themselves, submitted themselves to and support the all-leveling American institution. Watch, as "effect" becomes equated with money and wealth. That these females point to Bill Gates as the most virile of men.
I am on the fence about this. One part of my brain says "That's good, it means women are attracted to genius and intelligence." The other part of my brain says "That's bad, women are attracted to physical weakness and are money worshipping materialists."
Overall, I think it's bad, because Bill Gates donates to Monsanto, therefore he is a bad guy.

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Why even fake any pretense at this point; when Evidence shows all to be in the contrary? Why bother even call "Feminism", with its disgusting pretenses and appellations, by its name? Let us call it by it's true name, it's fundamental reflection of its true nature: Feminization. Niggerization.
I would say they are entangled, but seperate forces. Niggerization is whiggerfication, white men in suits banging their booty to rap music on TV. It is the dumbification of society. As a byproduct of a dumbification, societies' highest ideal becomes female beauty and nothing else, and thus feminization begins. Joker is more or less a parody of this, attracting (herding) people using female beauty standards and then killing them with money.
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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Tue Feb 02, 2016 3:51 pm



Ugly block head bitch; there is a relationship here between 'biological beyond ugliness' and tyranny against health and freedom of choice, and freedom of choice too is expression of taste; the ugly will be ridiculed, ignored, and reflected for what they are.
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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Tue Mar 29, 2016 9:36 am

Women are awakening to the inherit aggression in sexual intercourse, even the consensual kind.
Now female/male types are being clarified, unbeknownst to the modern idealists, explaining why there had to be two different specialized reproduction roles and why a female had to evolve particular physical and mental/psychological traits - potentials.
Also explains the psychological trauma experienced by rape, particularly by an unfamiliar male.

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Women are awakening to the inherit aggression in sexual intercourse, even the consensual kind.
Now female/male types are being clarified, unbeknownst to the modern idealists, explaining why there had to be two different specialized reproduction roles and why a female had to evolve particular physical and mental/psychological traits - potentials.
Also explains the psychological trauma experienced by rape, particularly by an unfamiliar male.

What doesn't make sense about the "progress" of women's rights is that if men and women evolved together, how can man be her natural oppressor (as if he suddenly beamed down to earth one day and started oppressing her). How can a woman be a victim to a man when it's through a woman that a man is even created? The feminist narrative is that woman "struggled" through the ages and now have rights that they never had before. The entire movement seems more a like a struggle against her own self image, her evolutionary role.
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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Fri Apr 22, 2016 6:25 pm

Paglia is a rare voice in this world of decay, proving the rule that only those who suffer from the dis-ease can comment on its symptoms, and if you dare speak on the illness from the standpoint of a healthy, uninfected one, then you are a "bully" and a "hater."

She does not diagnose the dis-ease accurately.
This mania with transgender, mirroring the process of "gay politics" and the emancipation of women, may be natural produced by sheltering, and r/reproductive tactics, but like all good conspiracies, a natural occurring phenomenon can be directed and enhanced by those who benefit from it.
This is how the [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] appears to us socioeconomically, culturally, memetically.
This is the battlefield of the mind - psychology, trapping the mind in a seductive prison.

Identity politics is how connections to past/nature are destroyed, leaving behind walking corpses, [You must be registered and logged in to see this link.].
The "zombie" is the domesticated human. Dull, docile, unaware, with no sense of self, productive, living in its own cage....subjectivity, safe and bored, using hedonism as its distraction, its meaning and purpose.

Women, the feminine psyche, is inclined to surrender to authority and be content to function as its means, returning us to the "Feminization of Mankind" thesis.
Regression of psychologies to the oral, and anal stages is socialized retardation, cultural autism - dumbing-down.

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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Fri Apr 22, 2016 7:03 pm

If you manage to endure her hyperactive neurosis listen to Paglia's comments on snobbish ivy-league thinkers with no sense of what it means to work with your hands...


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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Fri Apr 22, 2016 7:34 pm


Only thing she got wrong was her comments on homosexuality, using her pattern.
Homosexuality is a genetic predisposition, nurtured, first in the womb, due to hormonal balances, and then after the fetus is born, by environmental conditioning, like the kind Paglia refers to in her pattern of a "gay man".
Her comments on traditional families attempt to justify her own choices, and you can hear it in her voice when the question is asked.
Extended families are, indeed, the ideal unity for a child to grow up in, but this does not justify a homosexual mutation of the nuclear heterosexual family unit.
The one-father, one-mother model is already a degradation of the ideal family structure, so we cannot defend a homosexual version without sounding very Modern.

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My Mother’s Day funk did grow out of my belief that I do and sacrifice more for our family than Mark does. And weirdly, I somehow thought that this seemingly massive imbalance could be righted through a Mother’s Day display of profound appreciation.

This is funny to me now, because clearly even the most magical Mother’s Day outing would not dissolve my resentment. We needed to deal with the source of my resentment.

“We need counseling,” I announced to Mark. I sat down to work through what I wanted help resolving. What did I want Mark to do differently?

What I found, when I really thought hard about it, was that my assumptions about our division of labor were blatantly untrue. Believe me, I was shocked by this revelation. But it turned out that I had loads of evidence suggesting I don’t do more for our family than Mark.

True, I do the bulk of the emotional labor. But he does nearly all the house and garden maintenance. We spend about the same amount of time in the car driving kids around. I plan our meals and cook; he shops and cleans up. We’ve got a division of labor where he does the things he likes to do best (like mowing the lawn) while I get to do the things that I love to do (like talking to the kids about their feelings). I am lucky to have a truly equal partnership.

I was harboring resentment out of habit rather than reality. At times, being a mother can feel so overwhelming; when the kids were little, I sometimes felt a little victimized by it all, a little trapped by the sheer magnitude of the way they’d taken over my life. My husband simply couldn’t do many of the things that I was doing. Pregnancy, labor and delivery, and breastfeeding bred loads of occasions when only mama would do. My family could never repay me for the sacrifices I’d made for them—but they could, and should, show me a little gratitude for it. Hence my feelings of entitlement to a little Mother’s Day appreciation.

Now, this is what I wish to tell my children and husband both: We are even, with or without lanyards and family outings on Mother’s Day.

Because I am not trapped. I have not been victimized. There is no need for reparation. You don’t owe me a darn thing, even gratitude. I don’t have to do any of the many things I do for you or our family. I choose to do them. I do them because I love each of you so very much. Moreover, this love that I feel for you is the greatest gift I’ve ever been given. It is a great joy to be a mother in this family, your family. I’m deeply, profoundly grateful for all we are and all we have—together.
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PostSubject: Re: Feminism Mon May 09, 2016 9:15 pm

Feminism: Woman in chaos.  Woman's nihilism, Woman's self-hatred; hatred of her sexuality, her sexual being and her inherent inadequacies in comparison to the male. Self-hatred is innate awareness of weakness, of resentment. The "war on men" translates into the "projected war of woman against her self".

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