These effete males are those who also hate paternalism.
Like feminists.
they hate paternalism when it is only paternalism that could save them form their predicament.
Some use it to justify why they would not take-on responsibilities, others try to hide their naivete.
They were romantic idealists, like feminists, who thought that by eliminating paternalism both males and females would be free to return to a more rational, loving, compassionate behaviour, because like all Marxists, they are convinced that males and females are the way they are because of their upbringing - nurturing.
Now that they see things not turning out the way they had expected, they want to blame someone...so they blame females, and females of the same ilk, blame males.
They don't want to admit that they are naive morons, or that their delusions that men are raised to behave in this or that way, but that there's an innate disposition, a genetic inclination that males males behave like males and females like females.
For these imbeciles it is a bigger threat to their well-being to question their fundamental principles: that all is subjective and a product of society.
Both sides find I the other their scapegoat.
The emasculated omega male, and the bitter omega female....an alliance made in ideological utopia.
They use one another to not challenge the ideology they cannot live without.
When Communism failed mass progroms avenged the disillusioned against one another.
They slaughter and accuse one another so that they leave their ideology pristine and clean - unsoiled by doubt.
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