*Any sexual practice that does not multiply the possibility of fertilization is a fetish.
all fetishes have a psychological source; expressing a repressed part of the individual.
*Agressive women?
Feminization of Man leaves a void often attempted to be filled by females.
Men-children are a form of feminization - stunted development - leading to an attraction to motherly figures, i.e., in control, dominant, protective etc. - parental role.
*Penis Envy is a feminine syndrome nobody ever mentions - all sexual syndromes are directed to males.
A way of controlling and repressing masculine sexual options.
*Respect is a form of anxiety/fear - fear of losing something the other provides or can withhold.
Afraid the other may hurt you, or withhold his/her affections, his/her mentoring etc.
A woman want a man to expose his weakness so as to gain control, and feel safer - exposing your hot buttons only she can push.
She is clueless, so if the male exposes weakness greater to what she acknowledges in herself, she loses sexual attraction for him....not necessarily respect, since she may like him as a friend and respect him because she does not want to lose his presence, his comforting, his alliance...etc.
*Taking on the masculine role may be a fetish for her, and a perfect match if she finds a male with a fetish to be penetrated.
Two psychological issues finding in each other the perfect match.
Going back to Weininger: high testosterone female is a perfect match for a low testosterone male.
A deaf female may be perfect for a blind male, or vice versa. Two compensating handicaps.
A male who wants to be penetrated is concealing homosexual tendencies.
*The inferior cannot mimic the superior, or what it finds incomprehensible.
A man can imitate a chimpanzee; a chimpanzee cannot imitate a human without seeming absurdly funny to a human.
And so females imitating males always comes across as hyperbole, since they cannot understand masculinity outside social pop-cultural caricatures; they always overplay the role; same for males who do not understand femininity tend to exaggerate and caricature it. In comedy this is done intentionally.
Similar to bad actors who do not understand the role....always overact.
Therefore, woman often make the worse bosses...or leaders in general.
Always, exceptions prove a rule.
*Feminization of Man implies a convergence of masculine/feminine, into a uniformity.
All traits that distinguish male form female are reduced to a median - settling on mediocrity.
Like lowering genius and uplifting idiocy to find a median IQ.
What is lost is the exceptional...good and bad.
Body building can be perceived as overcompensation du to the emasculating forces of modernity.
*Any use of an appendage, orifice, or artifice in a sexual manner - contrary to the evolutionary function of an appendage - is a fetish particular to the human species - another aspect of mind/body - gene/meme dissonance, and how sheltering protects allowing mutations to compounds over time, manifesting all sorts of psychosomatic strangeness.
Nature is frugal, and so what does not offer an advantage or what offers a disadvantage, is usually culled out of a gene-pool - so any excessive actions that provide no multiplying effects on survival and reproduction, thrive only within manmade environments when they provide and protect excess safety and nutrients.
Desire = libidinal excess energies.
Art, for example, is a product of these excess energies, redirected from procreativity to creativity - both expunging these excess energies accumulated easier within sheltering manmade environments.
Leisure, for instance, is essential.
But these are side-effects because not all can sublimate and/or redirect their libidinal energies towards creative objectives.
The vast majority redirects them towards destructive, elf-destructive, objectives...
Fetishes are a form of redirected excess energies, seeking relief. Like all energies under pressure the weakest point is the point of their release - so fetishes expose a psychosomatic weakness.
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